Oh goodness. I am really sorry that is happening. I would encourage you to get counseling both on your own and maybe together if he will go. You may also want to go on some meds to help out. Good luck to you!

Thanks for the article.
My partner has said he does not want this second pregnancy at all. We have a nine year old and have not used anything in nine years since having our son with no pregnancies.
He was very unsupportive during my first pregnancy which led to severe depression and then Ppp which took two years to fully repair from.
I’m only 8 weeks pregnant at the moment and the bullying and degrading behavior has already started.
I’m terrified I will get psychosis again and have linked in with the doctor to discuss my concerns. I have expressed my worries over my mental health to my partner and it fell on deaf ears. We got on very well up until I told him I’m pregnant but now he just doesn’t talk and when he does he says how shit his life is.
What do I do here.